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“It’s not advisable for ladies to marry before 28” – Venita

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Venita, a well-known reality TV star and actress, has expressed her strong belief that it’s not a good idea for women to marry before the age of 28. This viewpoint, shared during an interview on Cool FM’s The Big Friday Show with her colleague Tacha, is rooted in Venita’s own experiences and perspectives.

At 37 years old and having been through a divorce, Venita advises young women to embrace their youth and postpone marriage decisions driven solely by love. She goes on to explain that she wouldn’t approve of her daughters marrying before 28 because, in her opinion, young women should explore various aspects of life and gain diverse experiences before committing to the lifelong commitment of marriage.

Venita passionately discourages early marriages, cautioning against the common scenario of high school sweethearts rushing into marriage without fully understanding themselves. She encourages young individuals to enjoy life, emphasizing that marriage should come after a period of self-discovery.

In her ideal scenario, Venita would consider her daughter’s marriage only if she approached the decision after the age of 28. She underscores the importance of maturity, acknowledging that people mature at different rates but insisting that trying different life experiences is essential to making an informed decision about settling down.

Drawing from her own life, Venita speaks about the potential challenges of marriage and the need for personal space. Being divorced herself, she suggests that individuals may change over time, leading to difficulties even in seemingly happy marriages. She hints at a Westernized perspective of being able to “unstick” oneself from a marriage if needed.

In a unique twist, Venita envisions an ideal marriage scenario where she and her husband would have separate houses connected by magnificent corridors. This concept represents her desire for personal space within the institution of marriage, highlighting her belief in the importance of maintaining individual identities even in a committed relationship.

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  • #25261
    User Avataradam2003
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    Marriage is not about age

    #25270
    User Avatarabiodun
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    Early marriage without self discovery is totally bad

    #25281
    User Avatarosuji-jamachi99
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    <p style=”text-align: left;”>She’s right</p>

    #25344
    User Avatargideon
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    If she feels is time she can get married

    #25664
    User Avatarlejuleye31
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    Marriage is not about age but when you are maturely ready for it

    #25701
    User Avataradam2003
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    What are you trying to discover in yourself before getting married 🤔 😏
    In some countries,they marry at early stages and they’re living fine

    #25707
    User Avatarmachinery
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    Marriage is not about age, but you have to be mature enough to be a husband or wife… Because marriage is forever so choose wisely

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